El consentimiento (¡para niños!): Cómo poner límites, pedir respeto y estar a cargo de ti mismo
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- Create Date：2021-04-02 02:51:12
- Update Date：2025-09-06
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- Author：Rachel Brian
- ISBN：6075571590
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Summary
This simple graphic novel， useful for children and parents to read and learn together （or each on their own）， teaches crucial topics for the development of autonomous children and gives them tools to prevent sexual abuse and violations of bodily and emotional borders many children suffer at the hands of adults， peers and older children。 And he does it with charm， through highly illustrated pages and clear and forceful images and metaphors that seek to get away from the logic of guilt and shame and take responsibility for oneself。 It is an excellent way to sit down and discuss and think about what are the limits and boundaries of your own body and how to establish them; how to respect themselves and others; what to do if someone makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure， and how to observe and regulate your own interactions with others。
Reviews
Shauna Ikahihifo
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Teach Kids （And Yourself） About Boundaries & ConsentRachel Brian explains concepts of coundaries and consent in ways children and adults can both understand。 The illustrations are cute， clever， & very helpful especially when explaining more complex ideas。 Really enjoyed this book！
Josh
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Excellent！
Hung
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A quick， easy read。 Very accessible for all ages and reading levels。
Kelsey
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This is the best explanation of consent I’ve yet seen for kids—literally of all ages。 I want to share this with my nieces but also my students。 I highly recommend it。
Yelania Nightwalker
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El consentimiento （¡para niños y niñas！） Esta novela gráfica es un recurso indispensable para hablar con nuestros hijos sobre como poner límites con otras personas， explicándoles de manera sencilla cómo poder expresar cuando hay algo que no quieren hacer， como reconocer cuando uno de sus límites está siendo cruzado y cómo respetar los límites de los demás。El libro no se enfoca en puntos sexuales， ni deja en claro lo que podría ser una caricia de éste tipo。 Creo que es un libro introductorio El consentimiento （¡para niños y niñas！） Esta novela gráfica es un recurso indispensable para hablar con nuestros hijos sobre como poner límites con otras personas， explicándoles de manera sencilla cómo poder expresar cuando hay algo que no quieren hacer， como reconocer cuando uno de sus límites está siendo cruzado y cómo respetar los límites de los demás。El libro no se enfoca en puntos sexuales， ni deja en claro lo que podría ser una caricia de éste tipo。 Creo que es un libro introductorio para explicar el consentimiento pero también deja abierta la posibilidad a qué sean los padres los que les expliquen a sus hijos。 Y ojo， papás/mamás， siempre es mejor prevenir que lamentar， dejemos a un lado la pena y hablemos con nuestros niños con honestidad。 Me ha gustado mucho para explicarle a los peques lo que está bien y lo que no deben permitir con sus cuerpos。 A no aceptar sobornos ni presiones y que si en algún momento alguna persona （quién sea） le toca o se dirige de manera inapropiada debe decirle a un adulto de confianza de inmediato， recalcando que NO ES SU CULPA， lo que sea que haya ocurrido， es SIEMPRE culpa del adulto， aunque yo agregaría， que es siempre culpa de la otra persona， ya que no solo son adultos quienes realizan el abuso。No dejo edad recomendada porque honestamente el formato con imágenes lo hace fácil para leer con niños pequeños y porque este tema， tristemente， es de vital importancia que les expliquemos a nuestros hijos。 Imprescindible， de verdad， tenerlo en casa。 。。。more
Liliana Gama （Liliana entre libros）
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¡Hola！ El día de hoy traigo una recomendación muy especial para los más pequeños en casa que les mostrara lo importante que es expresar sus decisiones。 “EL Consentimiento” es un libro que de manera un poco humorística y fácil de entender les explicara a los niños mediante ilustraciones el cómo y cuándo pueden decir “sí” o “no” a situaciones cotidianas en las que se pueden ver envueltos。 Desde pequeños debemos enseñarles que tienen el poder de tomar decisiones y que su cuerpo es solo de ellos。 El ¡Hola！ El día de hoy traigo una recomendación muy especial para los más pequeños en casa que les mostrara lo importante que es expresar sus decisiones。 “EL Consentimiento” es un libro que de manera un poco humorística y fácil de entender les explicara a los niños mediante ilustraciones el cómo y cuándo pueden decir “sí” o “no” a situaciones cotidianas en las que se pueden ver envueltos。 Desde pequeños debemos enseñarles que tienen el poder de tomar decisiones y que su cuerpo es solo de ellos。 El libro muestra de una manera clara lo importante de que nadie te puede forzar hacer algo con lo que no te sientas cómodo， a defender sus opiniones， así como respetar los límites de otros。 El libro toca diferentes temas como: ¿Qué es el consentimiento？， como poner límites， como apoyar a tus amigos， el poder cambiar de opinión， que situaciones pueden hacerlos sentir incomodos y como contestar a ellas。 Enfocándome en el tema de los limites les enseña como pueden ser diferentes para cada persona con la que tratan， por dar un ejemplo ¿Quién no tuvo una abuela que le gustara pellizcarnos las mejillas？ Pues este libro les muestra como de manera educada decir “No” a esa situación y dando límites para expresar que saludo los hace sentir cómodos。 También les enseña que no deben ser chantajeados a decir “Si” por miedo a ser lastimados， como puede tratar la situación y a quien podrían acudir en busca de ayuda。 Otro dato a mencionar es que deja muy claro que si alguien traspasa los límites de su consentimiento no es culpa de ellos， lo es de la persona que no respeto su decisión， otro detalle que me ha gustado es que explica lo importante de las relaciones sanas y de qué manera los debe hacer sentir para reconocerlas， por ejemplo: que haya respetó mutuo， les brinden confianza y los hagan sentir seguros， una amistad que te haga sentir tristeza， angustia o miedo por nombrar algunos ejemplos no es sana。 Sin duda es un libro que ayuda mucho a explicarle a los niños el poder de su voz。 Como complemento al final el libro incluye una lista de números telefónicos de diferentes países donde los niños pueden solicitar ayuda en caso de sufrir cualquier tipo de maltrato。 https://lilianaentrelibros。blogspot。c。。。 。。。more
Sandrina Martins
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Educativo e divertido。 Sério e leve。 Ótima abordagem do tema， um convite para bons debates。
Erica
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EXCELLENT！
Heather O'Neill
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Read this book with my boys （ages 12 & 10） and they got the message。 We did have to discuss some of the issues that were brought up that the author did not address fully in the book （the part of taking naked pictures or inappropriate touching， though my kids are well aware because we've talked about this often since they were younger）。 My boys liked the drawings and there was some humor， which is a must for them。 After we read the book my boys kept saying， "I am not consenting to doing my school Read this book with my boys （ages 12 & 10） and they got the message。 We did have to discuss some of the issues that were brought up that the author did not address fully in the book （the part of taking naked pictures or inappropriate touching， though my kids are well aware because we've talked about this often since they were younger）。 My boys liked the drawings and there was some humor， which is a must for them。 After we read the book my boys kept saying， "I am not consenting to doing my school work and you can't make me。" 。。。more
Anneke Alnatour
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Such a great book on consent， and should be read to EVERY kid at least once。 It should be in every classroom， and in every library。 This book just should be everywhere。。。
Alice
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5 stars - all should read
Stephanie
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Really really great comic-book style explanation about consent。 Teaches kids that their body is their own and how to set boundaries with others。 Touches on topics like trusting your gut when a situation feels wrong， the right to change your mind， and what does or does not count as consent。 It teaches kids to respect other people's boundaries and to watch for signs like when someone says yes but seems scared， shrugs， or freezes up， and explains that if they don't give CLEAR consent， the answer is Really really great comic-book style explanation about consent。 Teaches kids that their body is their own and how to set boundaries with others。 Touches on topics like trusting your gut when a situation feels wrong， the right to change your mind， and what does or does not count as consent。 It teaches kids to respect other people's boundaries and to watch for signs like when someone says yes but seems scared， shrugs， or freezes up， and explains that if they don't give CLEAR consent， the answer is no。 It explains that when someone uses power， bribes， or threats to get you to do something it is NOT consent。 Also explains the important fact that a person's clothing does not imply consent （using the example that if someone is wearing a swimsuit it doesn't mean you can push them into the pool。） There is a page about grooming， explaining warning signs like secrecy， isolation， and inappropriate touching。 My one complaint about the book would be that it isn't specific about what constitutes inappropriate touching。 It states "There are some things kids can't consent to。 So know that it's not your fault。" Obviously as an adult I know this refers to sexual assault， but the book doesn't explicitly explain this so a parent will need to step in and provide the necessary details。 This is definitely a great resource and I highly recommend it！ 。。。more
Adam
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An excellent book that is easy to understand。 A must read for all kids。
정진 장
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2021。Jan Nice and fun book for kids。 Enve Gio（6） understood what the auther wanted to point out。 Next level should be followed， so this potic can be discussed repeatedly。
Joan Gagan
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Excellent book。 Simple concise examples。 I wish I had this when I was a child。
Senga
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Świetna rzecz， która przypomina o podstawowych zasadach współżycia z innymi i uczy jak wyglądają zdrowe i bezpieczne relacje。 Skondensowana， konkretna， przejrzysta。 Dla czytelnika w każdym wieku， ale dla dzieci szczególnie。 Sprawdzi się jako materiał do pracy dla nauczycieli。
Beatrice
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Condivido la critica che è stata mossa da alcune altre recensioni: il libro non può sostituire il dialogo con i genitori， anche perché in molti punti è molto vago e confusionario。 Ma l'intento è ammirevole e il tema importantissimo。 Condivido la critica che è stata mossa da alcune altre recensioni: il libro non può sostituire il dialogo con i genitori， anche perché in molti punti è molto vago e confusionario。 Ma l'intento è ammirevole e il tema importantissimo。 。。。more
Sarah Krajewski
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A great book for parents to share with their children！
Erin
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The content is pretty clear， very engaging and hits the highlights hard。 In terms of making “consent” accessible， it does a great job。 My seven-year-old grabbed this himself， read it on his own， and seemed to really connect with it。 He casually mentioned that I should hang on to it so he can read it again （hence the five stars — with a recommendation like that， what other option is there？）。 I do think a grown-up is a helpful accompaniment。 While consent is clearly addressed， I did have to clarif The content is pretty clear， very engaging and hits the highlights hard。 In terms of making “consent” accessible， it does a great job。 My seven-year-old grabbed this himself， read it on his own， and seemed to really connect with it。 He casually mentioned that I should hang on to it so he can read it again （hence the five stars — with a recommendation like that， what other option is there？）。 I do think a grown-up is a helpful accompaniment。 While consent is clearly addressed， I did have to clarify that we don’t call 911 just because our parents aren’t doing what we want。 But the concept of his body being his own seemed to sink in， although he seemed dubious that the same consideration also applied to everyone else。 A engaging conversation-starter。 。。。more
Melissa
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This landed on best graphic novels 2020 list and it's a great approach to a difficult topic。 Actually， not a difficult topic at all the way it's presented - incredibly straight forward and common sense。 A great launching point for those who don't find this topic easy and excellent resource for everyone This landed on best graphic novels 2020 list and it's a great approach to a difficult topic。 Actually， not a difficult topic at all the way it's presented - incredibly straight forward and common sense。 A great launching point for those who don't find this topic easy and excellent resource for everyone 。。。more
Pamela
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Perfect introduction to this topic， addressing such things as voicing your boundaries， respect being two ways， listening to your gut （which matches the lesson our school offers about staying safe）， changing your mind is ok， and clothing is not consent。 Without being too explicit， this could be used by parents to teach their children about boundaries and their family values。 It would also work just as well for a child to read independently to understand the topic better without being exposed to l Perfect introduction to this topic， addressing such things as voicing your boundaries， respect being two ways， listening to your gut （which matches the lesson our school offers about staying safe）， changing your mind is ok， and clothing is not consent。 Without being too explicit， this could be used by parents to teach their children about boundaries and their family values。 It would also work just as well for a child to read independently to understand the topic better without being exposed to language or topic details they are not ready for。 。。。more
Jillian Heise
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FANTASTIC！！！ So great at teaching kids about consent & boundaries at the elementary level。 I want to give this to every child I know。 Pair with picture book Can I Give You a Squish？！ FANTASTIC！！！ So great at teaching kids about consent & boundaries at the elementary level。 I want to give this to every child I know。 Pair with picture book Can I Give You a Squish？！ 。。。more
Beth
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Author did a great job making this fun while still addressing difficult situations。 If I was still a kid， I would really appreciate this。
Katie Reilley
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Full of clear explanations， engaging illustrations， and expertly-presented information， this is an empowering introduction to consent， bodily autonomy， and how to respect yourself and others。 Will be buying for my 4th/5th grade classroom。 Highly recommend。
Aileen
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A necessary book in well explained formats that break down the complexities of consent in easy to read tidbits。 As an adult， I wish I had this book as a child。
Safara
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Helpful reasource untuk anak-anak dan bahkan orang dewasa untuk bersikap lebih bijak dalam hubungan dengan orang lain。 Mungkin akan lebih bagus kalau ditambahkan bagian tubuh apa saja yang boleh disentuh atau tidak。 Consent yang dibahas disini masih sangat general。
Jessica Keeler
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What a delightful little book。 Amazing guide to consent， boundaries， and healthy relationships for kids。 This book is great for elementary-aged children and simplifies the topic beautifully without losing meaning。 Highly recommend！
Louise
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This is a decent， age-appropriate book about consent。 I liked that it tried to address scenarios in ways that kids can understand while still managing to be fun and silly。
Bkrieth
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Stellar！！！This should be required middle grade reading。 It is kid centered， with simple explanations and fantastic humor。 Rachel Brian gets this topic just right！
Rita
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